Friends have asked me many
times over the years, how often I had to jump down from the lifeguard chair for
an emergency.
Thankfully, there were very
few occasions.
One of the incidents I tell
them about was when a baby, barely walking, fell, face-first, into the lake
near the base of my chair.
I looked around and saw no
parents approaching the baby, so I jumped down, lifted the baby out of the
water and waited for the parents to show themselves.
I remember telling them lifeguards
were not babysitters, then, like all well-equipped, negligent parents, they
offered an excuse.
Negligent parents are not big
on vigilance; they are big on excuses.
During my radio news shift
Sunday morning, I wrote and read the story of Harambe’s killing several times.
Off the air, it infuriated me that such a magnificent animal had been shot to
death because of negligent parenting.
My feelings on the value of
zoos are for another blog, another time, but whenever we went to Granby Zoo, I
always spent more time at Mumba’s enclosure.
He was a fascinating,
impressive and magnificent creature, and I was saddened to hear, in October
2008, the 48 year old silverback gorilla had died.
His death of natural causes
was nowhere near as upsetting as 17 year old Harambe’s death Saturday at the
Cincinatti Zoo.
Did the zoo make the right
decision? Is there another way zoo staff could have handled the situation? None
of those questions matter because none of those questions would have come up, had
the boy’s parents done what parents are supposed to do.
Is it the zoo’s fault for
failing to make the enclosure child-proof? It’s the first time a spectator
breaches the enclosure since 1978, and no one would be talking about the issue
had the boy’s parents done what parents are supposed to do!
I wonder how long it took the boy to work his way into the enclosure; 15 seconds, 5 minutes, 10 minutes
or 15 minutes?
I bet his parents don’t even
know, since they weren’t doing what parents are supposed to do.
The child’s parents ought to
face justice, charges of criminal negligence; they are solely responsible for
Harambe’s death.
I saw this on Twitter today |
An online petition is
circulating, demanding the parents be held responsible. I hope it leads to some
kind of justice. Too often, negligent and blameworthy parents are excused, and
everyone else pays.
It’s nauseating.
I’ve always liked the idea
that parents should be licensed.
Years ago, two Nova Scotia
academics argued children have rights and parents have responsibilities. Brian
Howe and Katharine Covell of the University College of Cape Breton declared anyone
who hadn’t finished high school and a parenting course, shouldn’t be having
kids. Covell pointed out there are a lot of parents having children who have no
interest in raising them.
I often see those parents.
The position suggested by
Howe and Covell was prompted by the same
steady stream of child abuse and neglect cases still making headlines today.
Prospective parents,
suggested Howe and Covell in 1999, should have to complete a certified course
on early infant development, and sign a contract agreeing not to abuse or neglect
their child.
If, at any point during the
licensing process, a prospective parent referred to the credo of the negligent
parent, “Accidents happen”, the same words used by the mother of the boy who
fell in Harambe’s enclosure, it would be - application
denied.